What is love after all? It is important that love has many after all in marriage? After why loving so that the person of half alive enters marriage more very much however does fall out become enemy? Why do a lot of people that walk into marriage feel " the graveyard that marriage is love " ?
Everybody cannot be denied, love is bright and good. Love makes person be charmed magical gallop, dazzled affection is confused. Love is wonderful really. However, if love seeks the appearance only, without firm base, so the rainbow after love resembles rain, will quickly go urgently mostly, often written in water. Of love last period very brief. Not only short, love is returned actually very flimsy -- love is brittle most article. And marital criterion just contrary, marriage is one paragraph is overflowed long and the process of common, it can grant person with stable, warmth, because its are mediocre,also be met and let a person feel wearily. Love on the verge of breaking out, marriage needs the patience with long constant, need cooperates, need bears the blame.
Observe the marital status that surrounds a person next week attentively, you can discover, love talks scarcely in harmonious family. Hold together family is stable most the mainest essential factor, often be conditional match, hit it off perfectly and sense of responsibility is strong etc alleged and lay the thing with the tradition. Of all ages, its ending is the story that loves to get like a raging fire not less tragic, mix to Gu Baoyu from Romeo and Juliet Lin Daiyu, from install graceful · Kalienina arrives with wetting Lun Siji Liang Shanbai and Zhu Ying stage -- can not live to old age in conjugal bliss one pair.
If people is egregious was obsessed with " love " after the thing of this kind of purely imaginary, also meet harmful. Its are killed one of once was fallen in love with,be be about to marry, the condition such as the one's previous experience that presses a root to take no account of both sides, education, economy is suit, the result often is to live to the ability below an eave to discover " love " can eat when the meal far from, a variety of incommensurate appear in succession in the family come out, grouse with respect to somebody next " you do not love me " , wrangle next, divorce next. Actually their problem does not depend on loving, however each other are far from appropriate.
The another harm of superstition love is, married person now and then a scintilla is brushed to want to divorce outside marriage. Often those are very as different as those spouse people, can bring huge to the person new move, then, somebody is immersed in this to plant by fresh and in the love that brushs a scintilla, generate huge resentment to the domesticity of mediocre Fan Su, the fault loves the new sweetheart really, return ground of one is assured and bold with justice to put forward to part company to first wife, the reason is " we had had love no longer " . Do not know a new sweetheart to will become old love eventually, marry again time became long still meet " have love no longer " , unless left ceaselessly,written guarantee again, will experience eventually otherwise " did not love " ordinary life.
Actually, marriage is marriage, it is the experience of a paragraph of life, it is to need to be helped up each other carry and the patient, life process that be paid each other and helps. Marital both neither is the hall with divine what, also not be the graveyard with lamentable what, want you not to have blind faith in so called love only, marriage is very warm still.
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